Sarah a little something for you & your Mommy and I bet Kevin is so proud of you with that great report card..Kevin is still with you & your Mommy and will always be watching over you both you just can't see him but keep your eyes open for pennies or dimes he will drop them sometimes in strange places,sidewalks in the car anywhere if you come across one pick it up and look up and say thank you Kevin cause it will be from him letting you know he's with you all still..You & Mommy now have an Angel with you to always watch over you just like me I have an Angel name Doug and I know he's watching over me and his 2 daughters always.Hope you like the little graphic's I made for you and Mommy...Sending hugs to both of you...

                                              Yvonne/Dougsgirl,

Wendy I am so sorry for your loss my heart goes out to you. Just take one day at a time and remember all the love & memories you and your daughter have shared with Kevin.The day after Christmas will be 2 years that I loss my Doug and I won't lie to you the memories are what keep me going and yea the tears still fall not as much as the 1st year but they fall. Just know you have so many wonderful people on this site to help you along this road that we all have been down and some how we will make it together..My thoughts are with you and your daughter.

                                                    Yvonne,

                                 Missing My Doug                          

                                www.douglas-sager.memory-of.com

Wendy,

First, I want to say that I am incredibly sorry for your loss.  I know our stories of loss are much different, however the pain that we are left with is much the same.  I'm nearly 3 years into the loss of my dear sweet son and I still find myself questioning the reason behind it everyday.  All I can come up with so far is that it isn't fair.  Our dreams were stolen from us and there is no going back.  All we can do...and I know this is no easy task...is to remember, cherish and hold on to all the sweet memories.  It is very true that life is not about the number of breaths we take but the ones that take our breath away.  I can tell from your site that he most definitely took your breath away.  I will pray that peace start to surround you...and it will in time.  Although it won't ever be in the form you hope for, it will come.  You must allow it!  I'm not going to say that everything happens for a reason, because I'm not a believer in that anymore.  I will never understand a statement like that again!  I do know that love will reunite you again SOMEDAY and that is the hope that you hold on to.  SOMEDAY is thought that keeps me sane and keeps me going, even when I don't want to.  There will be a SOMEDAY and when that day comes, you'll spend eternity in absolute peace & love. 

I also wanted to thank you Wendy, from the bottom of my heart for visiting with my son and lighting those precious candles for him.  I haven't been too frequent on his site for awhile now as the emotions that are churned are too hard for me to bare.  I want you to know that it's ok to have those emotions too.  They come and they go and I think they will for the rest of your life.  It's the rollercoaster ride you never asked to get on!  Even if you choose to move forward in life, maybe by burrying yourself in work, or finding a new love...He can't and won't ever be replaced.  In my case I had another son.  Almost a 2 years to the date.  My new son is such a joy to have and yes, he has helped cure the aching arms I had for such a long time, but he is in no way or will ever be a replacement for the one that I lost.  He will always have a special place in my heart where he will remain alive and where his memories shine from within me. 

I will keep you and your family in my prayers.  I will pray that the days ahead are filled with warmth and peace that surround you like his love.  I send you all my love & hugs.  God Bless you all.

THERE IS A SPECIAL ANGEL IN HEAVEN THAT IS A PART OF ME
IT IS NOT WHERE I WANTED HIM,BUT WHERE GOD WANTED HIM TO BE.
HE WAS HERE BUT JUST A MOMENT LIKE A NIGHT TIME SHOOTING STAR,
AND THOUGH HE IS IN HEAVEN HE ISN'T VERY FAR.
HE TOUCHED THE HEART OF MANY LIKE ONLY AN ANGEL CAN DO.
SO I SEND THIS SPECIAL MESSAGE TO THE HEAVEN UP ABOVE.
PLEASE TAKE CARE OF MY ANGEL AND SEND HIM ALL MY LOVE

Dear kevin,God bless you and all those that love and miss you...and give them strenght to face each day missing you...you will forever be loved by two special ladys...Wendy and Sarah...stay close by...and let them feel your love....soon it will be your birthday, and those dates are verry hard to those that love you ....lots of  hugs and kisses to you (((Wendy))) and (((Sarah)))...love always...irene mommy to angel...Kayla Xavier forever............(Dear Wendy and Sarah thank you so much!!!for lighting up candles for my daughter kayla...it means a lot to me and it  makes me feel so happy..)

Dear Wendy,

   There will come a day
when your tears of sorrow
will softly flow into tears of remembrance...
and your heart will begin to heal itself...
and grieving will be interrupted by episodes of joy...
and you will hear the whisper of hope.
There will come a day
when you will welcome the tears of remembrance...
as a sunshower of the soul...
a turning of the tide...
a promise of peace.
There will come a day when you will...
risk loving...
go on believing...
and treasure the tears of remembering

   Thank you for being so kind and considerate of my son Adam. Your candles are appreciated very much.  I am sorry for your loss, so very sorry!

Much Love,

 Jane Smith

Adam's Mom

PRECIOUS ANGELKEVIN, THINKING OF THOSE WHO ARE A SPECIAL PART OF OUR LIVES& HAVE A SPECIAL PLACE IN OUR HEART. SENDING LOTS OF LOVE

Kevin I Dedicated A corner of my bedroom to you right by my bed so when I go to sleep I see you and when I wake up I see you I miss you a lot I wish the Conatty's would just leave me and mom alone I love you Kevin and miss you

Love you

Sarah

A butterfly lights beside us like a sunbeam
And for a brief moment its glory
and beauty belong to our world
But then it flies again
And though we wish it could have stayed...
We feel lucky to have seen it.
Author Unknown
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Dear Wendy,

Thank you for visiting my family's site and leaving a tribute.  I know you are going through alot right now and I cant imagine how devasted you are.  I believe that even though you were unable to marry your soul mate here on earth, that in heaven awaits a Beautiful Wedding someday. Just know that Kevin is always beside you and Your Beautiful daughter Sarah.

Thank you again for stopping by our site.

Love,

Christine